Recently I observed an interview conducted by a relatively new recruiter
(let’s call him Dan). He did an adequate job asking the (moderately
experienced) candidate (let’s call her Sarah) about her previous work
experience. However when it came to Dan probing a gap of three months between
Sarah’s jobs, things didn’t go so well.
Dan asked Sarah what she was doing in that period of time between jobs
and she said ‘it’s personal’. Then when pressed a little by Dan –‘what do
you mean by that?’, Sarah said, somewhat unconvincingly, ‘I was looking
after a sick family member’.
I could tell from Dan’s reaction that he wasn’t really satisfied with
Sarah’s response but in the presence of a clearly uncomfortable candidate, he
was obviously also uncomfortable to probe the matter further.
The interview was completed without the issue being raised again.
After Sarah left, I sat down with Dan to debrief the interview.
To his credit, Dan immediately identified that issue when I asked him my
standard post-interview question ‘How did you assess your own performance?’
Dan: ‘Ross, I knew I needed more
information than she was prepared to give me but I could see she was
uncomfortable about my questions and she did say it was personal.’
let me ask you this: Are you prepared to refer Sarah to either the job you
interviewed her for, or another job, with that question mark hanging in the air
about how she spent those 3 months between jobs?’
Dan: ‘Umm, err, I’m not sure. I
mean she had some good experience’
Ross: ‘Is that
a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’?’
Dan: ‘I suppose it’s a no.’
definitely a ‘no’. Unless you can confidently recommend a candidate then you
shouldn’t recommend them. My firm view as a recruiter was that any candidate I
referred to a client was one that carried my personal stamp of approval. Unless
I was prepared to argue for my candidate in the face of a doubting client then
I wouldn’t refer them!’
Dan: ‘So how should I have
responded when she said she was looking after a sick family member?’
Ross: ‘Ask her
for more specifics such as: Which family member? What were you doing for them
specifically? How many hours per day or week of your time was this taking up?’
These are all perfectly valid and reasonable questions to ask a candidate
because it is your job to know the answers to these questions! In my
experience, candidates who don’t wish to answer these questions are those who
are not telling you the complete story’
Dan: ‘What if the candidate
doesn’t want to answer those sorts of questions?’
candidate is perfectly entitled to decline to answer any question you
ask them. Your role as the recruiter is to explain why it’s in their best
interest to answer any and all of your questions. You simply say to the
candidate; you don’t have to answer the question but if I did refer you to my
client and that client asks me the same question about you and I can’t answer
it then that reflects poorly on my credibility. The result is that it’s highly
unlikely you will gain an interview. By answering this question you
significantly increase your chances of gaining the job. Not answering it means
you have almost no chance of obtaining an interview for the job’
Our cultural upbringing and social experiences have conditioned a vast
majority of us to deliberately not put other people in an uncomfortable
situation. If an uncomfortable situation presents itself then our cultural and
social conditioning has us immediately act to remove or lessen that uncomfortable
This is not appropriate behaviour for an interviewer.
An interview is (for the interviewer) about understanding the full
picture (as much as time allows) of a candidate’s skills, competencies and
motivation. The candidate is trying to present themselves as positively as
possible (as they should).
The interviewer should be asking probing questions and examining every
relevant element of a candidate’s background. Areas of that background that the
candidate may believe are less helpful to them in gaining a client interview,
and ultimately a job, are ones the candidate would prefer the interviewer not
to delve into. This is likely to create an uncomfortable period of time during
This scenario is completely okay.
If you have built sufficient rapport and are speaking respectfully and
without aggression, then you will not damage the quality of the interview nor
your relationship with the candidate.
Although a political media interview is a very different type of interview
to a job interview there is much to be learned from Leigh Sales doing
her job in making Tony
Abbott uncomfortable with this famous 12 minute interview on ABC’s 7.30
program late last year.
are uncomfortable in your interviews? You should be.